Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts

Friday, 5 July 2013

Abortion - At 19 Weeks... Is it a baby?

A very delicate topic, with very delicate images.

At 19 weeks a baby is already a baby, I am 'pro-life' and I have always been.
I think only in extreme situations, where there is a serious problem where the mother may loose her life at birth for example, it is only then that termination should be considered, but even then it is obviously a serious matter.

So please take care, if you don't want a baby. If you do fall pregnant by accident and really don't want the baby then give birth and give it for adoption, there are many couples that can't have a baby and would love the child like their own and give it everything.

So don't refer to the child in your tummy as a foetus and think it's ok to murder it, it really is not ok. To me it's murder, full stop.

I know someone that had a couple of abortions, because her partner didn't want kids.
Sadly her husband died and she was left with no children and lives in her home all alone. Now almost 80 years old and with a very bad heart, she feels alone and like nobody cares for her.
She regrets her decision forever. It's very sad.

Let that not be you, if you are thinking of an abortion, please don't. I beg you reconsider.

You see, even at just 19 weeks, although too little to survive outside the mother's miraculous body... A BABY is still a BABY.

Walter at 19 weeks - Lexi & Joshua's beautiful baby

Read Lexi's account of her experience meeting her baby boy here, hopefully this will give you a different perspective.

Even if this post changes just one decision and saves just one life, it's all worth it.

M x

Friday, 30 December 2011

Top Baby Names for 2011

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BABY GIRL NAMES 2011

1    OLIVIA
2    LILY
3    SOPHIE
4    AMELIA
5    EMILY
6    JESSICA
7    GRACE
8    AVA
9    RUBY
10    MIA
11    CHLOE
12    EVIE
13    ISABELLA
14    SOPHIA
15    POPPY
16    ISLA
17    ELLA
18    LUCY
19    FREYA
20    DAISY
21    MAISIE
22    LILLY
23    ISABELLE
24    CHARLOTTE
25    ELLIE
26    SUMMER
27    MEGAN
28    HOLLY
29    LAYLA
30    EVA
31    ERIN
32    MILLIE
33    LOLA
34    PHOEBE
35    LEXI
36    LACEY
37    IMOGEN
38    SCARLETT
39    SIENNA
40    EMMA
41    MOLLY
42    HANNAH
43    ALICE
44    AMY
45    BROOKE
46    KATIE
47    ABIGAIL
48    LEAH
49    JASMINE
50    GRACIE
51    AMBER
52    ROSIE
53    SOFIA
54    MATILDA
55    FLORENCE
56    ELIZABETH
57    FAITH
58    AMELIE
59    GEORGIA
60    ANNA
61    MAYA
62    MADISON
63    JULIA
64    REBECCA
65    BETHANY
66    PAIGE
67    MADDISON
68    NIAMH
69    KAYLA
70    ISABEL
71    BELLA
72    ESME
73    ISOBEL
74    LEXIE
75    LAUREN
76    CAITLIN
77    WILLOW
78    ZOE
79    SKYE
80    ROSE
81    ZARA
82    KEIRA
83    ELEANOR
84    ELIZA
85    EMILIA
86    MARTHA
87    HOLLIE
88    EVELYN
89    HEIDI
90    TILLY
91    DARCY
92    EVE
93    NICOLE
94    ELSIE
95    SARAH
96    LIBBY
97    HARRIET
98    ABBIE
99    MAISY
100    MYA


BABY BOY NAMES 2011

1    HARRY
2    JACK
3    OLIVER
4    CHARLIE
5    ALFIE
6    JACOB
7    THOMAS
8    JAMES
9    RILEY
10    ETHAN
11    JOSHUA
12    WILLIAM
13    GEORGE
14    MAX
15    DANIEL
16    NOAH
17    OSCAR
18    LOGAN
19    ARCHIE
20    DYLAN
21    LUCAS
22    JAKE
23    SAMUEL
24    JOSEPH
25    TYLER
26    JAYDEN
27    LEO
28    LEWIS
29    RYAN
30    MASON
31    FINLEY
32    HENRY
33    ALEXANDER
34    ADAM
35    HARRISON
36    FREDDIE
37    BENJAMIN
38    CALLUM
39    LIAM
40    LUKE
41    ISAAC
42    MATTHEW
43    JAMIE
44    CONNOR
45    ALEX
46    THEO
47    NATHAN
48    KAI
49    EDWARD
50    TOBY
51    HARVEY
52    HARLEY
53    AIDEN
54    BEN
55    FINLAY
56    MICHAEL
57    AARON
58    OLLIE
59    CAMERON
60    SAM
61    DAVID
62    ZACHARY
63    LEON
64    OWEN
65    SEBASTIAN
66    TOMMY
67    RHYS
68    BOBBY
69    JENSON
70    KYLE
71    LOUIS
72    KAYDEN
73    LUCA
74    EVAN
75    JACKSON
76    BLAKE
77    KIAN
78    CALEB
79    DEXTER
80    LOUIE
81    JUDE
82    ZAC
83    TAYLOR
84    REECE
85    RORY
86    ASHTON
87    HAYDEN
88    FRANKIE
89    ARTHUR
90    BAILEY
91    GABRIEL
92    STANLEY
93    CODY
94    ELLIOT
95    JAY
96    BILLY
97    JOHN
98    AIDAN
99    COREY
100    JOEL

Kindly provided by www.Bounty.com, home of the Bounty Parenting Club :)

Tuesday, 5 July 2011

Pregnancy Tips: Reduce Morning Sickness

Jackie Fletcher speaks to many mums-to-be who are overwhelmed by information around pregnancy and childbirth. As co-author of ‘Secrets of Confident Childbirth’, she loves helping them feel less daunted about what’s to come.

You were so excited: You found out you are expecting a baby, but now you feel ill. Just the wafts of food or the smell of coffee send you running. Maybe it isn't too bad and you just have a lingering nausea. You are not the only one, it is estimated that 66% of women experience 'Morning Sickness' during the first few months of pregnancy. It still doesn't make you feel any better. 
 
Morning sickness does not only occur in the morning, you can feel its effects any time, day or night. You may vomit or just feel nauseous. It is also commonly regarded as a symptom of the first trimester, yet for some it continues until 18 weeks and for a few, will continue throughout the whole pregnancy.

In this article
  • So why do women suffer with “Morning Sickness”?
  • What is hyperemesis gravidarum?
  • How do I know if I am dehydrated?
  • Should I call the midwife or doctor?
  • Can I reduce morning sickness? 

So why do women suffer with “Morning Sickness”?

There is no definite answer and nothing has been proven, it is different for everyone. It could be a combination of different aspects. Here are some of them:
  • Hormonal changes
  • Emotions and emotional changes
  • The body needs to slow down
  • Protection from food borne illnesses
  • Change in the body's requirements
  • Low blood sugar 
What is hyperemesis gravidarum?

Put simply it is when a women experiences morning sickness so severely that she either vomits excessively and dehydrates or feels so ill that she cannot eat or drink enough to avoid dehydration. Dehydration then becomes a concern. So if you are suffering with severe morning sickness you must contact your GP.

How do I know if I am dehydrated?

I am going to sidetrack a moment. Now here's a very important point that applies to everyone, morning sickness or not, pregnant or not, female or not; If you feel thirsty you are already dehydrated!.
So thirst is a sign of dehydration, as is dizziness and if you are urinating less and your urine is dark in colour. When you have enough fluids in your body, your urine will be very pale, almost clear.
Signs that you need to get medical attention due to morning sickness?

If you:
  • Vomit more than 3-4 times per day
  • Notice that the vomiting is not getting any better
  • Feel weak and faint
  • Are losing weight
  • Feel thirsty and are unable to keep any liquids down
  • Haven't been able to eat or drink in 24 hours
  • Have eaten but haven't been able to keep anything down for 24 hours
  • Are urinating less and your urine is a darker colour than usual
Should I call the midwife or doctor?

If you feel you may be dehydrating then get in touch with your medical caregiver. You can contact your midwife and if she is not available, then contact your doctor. If you do not have easy access to a Midwife, browse through Greatvine where you'll find a fantastic list of Midwife's who are waiting to help you. 
There are many things you can do to ease morning sickness whether severe or slight. I have 22 tips to lessen morning sickness; combining them with some understanding about morning sickness hugely increases the response. One tip is to listen to the relaxation CD ‘Simply Reducing Morning Sickness’. 

For more details you can contact Jackie Fletcher via Greatvine. 

(Image: Louisa Stokes / FreeDigitalPhotos.net)

Monday, 29 June 2009

Labour inducing Acupuncture & Reflexology

As you already know I was overdue with my pregnancy and tried all the old wives tales to try and make labour come...sadly nothing worked.

I was desperate, really desperate, so I went online to research some more and came across some comments suggesting acupuncture and reflexology, as I am much into natural therapies I started researching into these more in depth. I read in many websites and blogs about positive experiences and it seemed to work for some people so I went in search of nearby practices.
I enquired about peoples experience and also the prices, I was still reluctant though as I am terrified of needles and also my pockets were nearby empty due to the moving and getting stuff for the baby etc. I came across a "clinic" (amongst many others) which I already knew about and they told me that it generally works and that I should bring my hospital bag and notes just in case... They told me I could have a treatment of just acupuncture or I could have reflexology too, which seemed to be more effective and quicker at bringing on labour.
The place is in Lakeside Shopping Centre, Thurrock, Essex (England) and I think it is called "Acupunture & Herbs", lady was really friendly and made an appointment for the next day for me. The acupunture was £25 and the reflexology was £50, it was actually the cheapest I had come across and since it was a place that I was familiar with as I have gonne passed it many times, I stuck with it!
I went on the 15/06/09 at around 2pm (an hour early) and they said it was fine that they could see me. I was a little aprehensive because of the needles but everyone was so friendly and made me feel very at ease...the needles were very thin (came in sterile packet which was opened in front of me) and barely felt them going in, I did read on the internet that you can fit 5 acupunture needles in 1 normal hospital needle, I only felt anything when the doctor tweeked them and even then I didn't really feel them, I felt more my muscles being tickled! The baby certainly felt something cause she started moving around a lot, they said this was normal and a good sign.
They then left me to relax in the room with the needles in for about 30 mins, after that the doctor came to take them out, easy peasy!

I then had the reflexology and this was really great, I would definately have this again even just to destress!

Reflexology is a special foot massage, basically every area of your foot corresponds to a part of your body. They put my feet in a special herbal foot bath to stimulate my circulation and then I had a wonderfully long foot massage done by the doctor. I got out of there super relaxed.

After I finished we went for late lunch and a walk around the shops... got home and while making late dinner (Spaghetti Bolognese @ 9.15pm) for the family and parents in law (on hols over from South Africa) MY WATERS BROKE!
So long story short...I am a believer in Chinese natural medicine and recommend it to anyone!
The story of the birth for those now curious is coming soon! Now difficult to write too much at a time with the baby, hubby looking after baby Mylie and Stefan for me to write this...now have to go and put my Stefan to bed!

Monica xxx

Friday, 12 June 2009

40+ Weeks Baby now overdue!!!

It has been a while since I posted... which is highly unusual for me.

As you noticed I announced we found a house and were moving and we managed to do it approx 2 weeks ago... yep, I moved at 38 weeks pregnant... it was a nightmare and I would NOT recommend it to anyone!

Fortunately for us baby Miley did not come out while we were moving but she is just as stubborn as mummy and is driving us nuts because now she doesn't want to come out!

We have managed to get rid of a lot of boxes and the kids room is sorted out nicely, everything ready for the baby...now, its just waiting for her!

I have tried lots of old wives tales to get labour induced... spicy food, plenty of walking, massage, nookee nookee ;), Rasperry Leaf Tea / Capsules, praying and nothing has worked so far.

She keeps on threatening with plenty of contractions etc but no sign of her yet!

I apologise for putting everything else on hold but its been hectic and stressful around here... I will let you all know when she decides to make an appearance!

Enjoy the weather!

Monica xx

Tuesday, 14 April 2009

Cuteness for my cutie coming!

OOOOOhhhhhh aren't these cute!?

I couldn't resist these cuties, I saw them on Misi in Pink Fairy Cake Shop.

They were a little different though, they were lighter pink and made in regular yarn. I requested this custom pair in a lovely bamboo yarn which is mega soft and silky, ideal for babies.

The shade of yarn is called Cherry lips I believe, aren't they soooo adorable! They look a bit like Crocs which makes them ubber cute.

As you probably know by now I am expecting a little girl soon. I am almost 32 weeks so I have just under 2 months to get everything ready and I am struggling to be honest!!! Anyone want to come and help?

I still have so many bits to buy still and not enough time and money!!!

I can't wait for my baby shoes to arrive though!!!

Monica xxx

Tuesday, 9 December 2008

I am back! I am sorry for the delay on letting you know the news but we have been having a bit of a rough time and I have been really busy with "Life"!

I had my first scan at 13 weeks last week, thankfully the baby is healthy and all is in its place. I was glad to discover it was just 1 baby and not 2, as for me 1 baby at a time is enough!

This will be my last pregnancy though (or so its planned!) so I don't want to stress out too much and try and enjoy it as much as I can.

We are really busy of course as well because Christmas is coming up and my untie is also getting married on the 27th of December! So the whole family is busy we can say!

I also made a lovely Nappy Stacker which is both listed on Ebay and on Etsy, visit our website to be directed to either shop http://www.myfunnybunny.com/

Here is some pics of the front and back.

It is made of heavyweight cotton and fits 20 Size 5 nappies inside, obviously the smaller the nappy, the more that will fit!

What I found very disappointing is that after I spent around £15 on a nappy stacker (Diaper Stacker) for my first son was that I wasnt able to use it for very long!

As soon as the nappies got bigger only a small number would fit and it was extremely difficult to take them out!

So when I designed this one I had in mind to construct one which was easy to use all the way until the child stopped wearing nappies!
Here it is! You take the nappies from the top, the same way you put them in and you can stand it up on the table or tie it to the cot.
I hope you like it!

I can make matching accessories on request but you need to hurry as I have a limited amount of this fabric!

Chat to you soon!

Monica xx

Sunday, 2 November 2008

NEW ARRIVAL COMING NEXT YEAR!

Hyia,

I have been absent for a while but now have great news...

WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!!! Yes I am 8 weeks pregnant!

Feeling the strain this time, very tired very nauseous... not having the best time! y mum says its because its a girl (apparently that also makes me look rubbish as I do now!)

My midwife says it could be twins as I have twins on both sides of the family...mine and my hubby's! Great now we are all in suspense until the 5 of December...when I have my first scan...then we will know if its one or two babies...

My son knows that there is a baby in mummy's belly so he keeps on telling me to open my belly button so he can see! LOL

Speak to you soon!

Monica